Kundali matching, better known as kundali milap has been an integral part of traditional Hindu weddings since time immortal. Matching of the horoscopes of the perspective bride and groom is considered the most important step towards finalising the relationship. It is one such custom which according to all believers is based on an exact science that studies the movement of the various heavenly bodies and planets that exist in our planetary system and are believed to be influencing us in various forms, be it attitudinal, our fortunes and also our choices. As per the popular belief, the positioning of the stars and planets at the time of a person’s birth highly determine the nature and character of a person, and also his compatibility with his would be spouse. The planets are supposed to influence in both negative and positive manner and thus shape our lives accordingly so before a couple decide to tie the knot it is considered a wise decision if the horoscope of both the girl and the boy are matched thereby ensuring that the couple is ideal in every which way.
While there are many who have started questioning the whole practice of matching horoscopes, we still cannot deny the inherent benefits that come tagged along with matching horoscopes. Some of them are as follows:
- It is tradition: the only thing that makes India unique in comparison to countries all over the world is the fact that we still believe in following our culture and traditions. By following practices like kundali Milan, we tend to remain attached to our roots.
- It provides peace of mind: one of the main reasons to match kundalis is to ensure that the prospective couple will lead a happy and healthy marital life together. Once the kundalis are matched and the match is given a go ahead, the couple as well as their families attain mental peace, with an assuredly that all will work well.
- Sense of security: a peaceful mind is the root and foundation of every happy and successful relationship. Even an iota of doubt can ruin a relationship for a life time. When the horoscopes are matched before marriage, it gives a sense of security to both the bride as well as groom that all will work well and they will lead a happy and blissful life together.
- Helps predict compatibility: horoscopes if matched and studied well by experts, can actually predict the future and compatibility of the couple. Hence, it is always better to match the horoscopes before taking the big leap.
While the society may remain divided over whether or not the practice of matching kundalis is important, we can never deny the fact that it is a tradition which has stood the test of times. This itself is proof enough that there must be some benefits and authenticity attached to it, which make it such an important part of the whole wedding scenario. However, following it is totally a personal call. May the stars be with you!
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